(Formally Women on Men Podcast) Every man says he’s a good guy. Not one of them can prove he’s done the work. You can.I’m Rafael Gomez. There are ten standards that make a man worth dating: like women as people, know yourself, decide what you want, look after yourself, have a full life, go after what you want, keep your promises, be safe to be around, be kind not nice, be good company.Not one of them is a trait you either have or you don’t. All ten are learnable, and working on any one of them...
Latest episodes
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1 h 03
Your Loneliness Has Nothing To Do With Women | YV Edit
YV has been reading the manosphere since before most of its audience found it. She was deep in TheRedPill subreddit fifteen years ago, before it was quarantined, and she has been t…
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40 min
Hypergamy Goes Both Ways | Therapist Jamie Lynn on the Red Pill’s Favorite Word
A licensed therapist went on a red pill podcast, didn’t like what she heard, and built the opposite. Jamie Lynn on why the techniques don’t survive contact with an actual relations…
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52 min
Everything The Red Pill Swears She Can't Be | Jade Greene
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.m…
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58 min
The Cambridge Debate Master Takes Apart The Red Pill | Tilly Middlehurst
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.m…
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60 min
She Went On Fresh & Fit & Exposed Their Manipulation Playbook | Mac Lawson
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.m…
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56 min
The Flirting Crisis Killing Men's Dating Lives | Marni Kinrys
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2f Book a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontraining Join me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.m…
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50 min
The 4 Red Flags Women Won't Forgive (And Why Red Pill Tactics Backfire) | Amy Rushworth
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2fBook a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontrainingJoin me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men…
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1 h 03
She Dated a Red Pill Believer. Here's What She Observed. | Emily Elizabeth
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2fBook a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/attractiontrainingJoin me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.men…
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31 min
She Worked at the Whatever Podcast. Here's What She Saw. | Felicity Hughes
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2fBook a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/womenonmenpod/60minJoin me live every Thursday on TikTok (@women.on.me…
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1 h 02
The Truth About the Manosphere | Kyla Turner (Not So Erudite)
Kyla Turner — known online as Not So Erudite — is a political commentator and former addiction counselor with a background in psychology and nursing. Her audience is 85% young men,…
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41 min
The Sex Recession, Debunking "High Value" Men, & The Low T Myth with Dr. Danielle Kramer
Buy the Attraction Handbook: https://amzn.to/3WapX2fBook a Coaching Session with Rafael: https://calendly.com/womenonmenpod/60minWhy are 1 in 3 young men completely opting out of s…
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54 min
Subconscious Dating Habits, Shadow Work, & The "Nice Guy" Trap with Veneta Nikolova
Are you recreating your childhood trauma in your dating life? Today on Women on Men, host Rafael Gomez sits down with Veneta Nikolova, a Somatic Shadow Work Coach specializing in c…
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38 min
Deprogramming the Manosphere: Male Loneliness, Neurodivergence, and the "Bad Boy" Myth
This week, Rafael is joined by Robyn Silber, a creator and author who applies her engineering background to a different kind of complex system: modern masculinity.Robin discusses h…
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54 min
Dating App Fatigue, Emotional Immaturity, and The "Male Loneliness" Myth with Hailey Ferretti
In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with skincare specialist and TikTok creator Hailey Ferretti for a candid discussion about dating app burnout and the disconnect be…
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54 min
The Plight of the Nice Guy: Bad Boys, Financial Stability & The "Good Man" Distinction w/ Drea Renee
Why do women say they want a nice guy but date the bad boy? In this episode, Rafael joins forces with Drea Renee, host of Hey Babe, Can We Talk?, to explore the evolution of attrac…
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53 min
Michelle Allegra Murad on What Women Actually Find Attractive
In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael sits down with actress, writer, and producer Michelle Allegra Murad for a raw and thoughtful conversation about what women really find attra…
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1 h 28
How to Flirt Without Being Creepy: Brenna’s Guide for Men
Brenna Lynn, a speech-language pathologist and viral TikTok creator, joins the show to share her no-nonsense guide for men on dating, flirting, and building real attraction. She ex…
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47 min
Holly Solem on Masculinity, Attraction, and the Myth of the Provider
Holly Solem has been featured in Vogue, HuffPost, and Oprah Daily—but her bold questions on TikTok’s “Manthropology” series are what drew us in. In this candid conversation, Holly…
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46 min
Marriage, Masculinity & Emotional Intelligence | Lauren Faudree Interview
What do women actually want in a partner—and how does that change over time?In this episode of Women on Men, Lauren Faudree, a dance teacher, mom, and wife of six years, joins us t…
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46 min
Kat Clark
In this episode of Women on Men, Rafael Gomez sits down with Kat Clark — a relational and somatic coach, interior designer, and mother of four — for a powerful conversation about m…