Join adult influencers and reality TV personalities Koaty & Sumner as they explore the world of love, dating, and relationships from a reality and adult film world point of view. So take off your clothes, it’s time to get in bed with the duo that does more than each other. Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/in-bed-with-koaty-sumner--6317880/support.
Latest episodes
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31 min
In Bed With VACAYA CEO Randle Roper: Redefining Queer Travel, One Voyage at a Time
What if queer travel could be more than parties and pool floats?In this week’s In Bed with Koaty & Sumner, we’re literally in bed with Randle Roper, CEO and co-founder of VACAYA —…
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22 min
Blayne It On Us: Live Confessions from the Queer Chaos
What happens when your ex keeps sending you money, your boyfriend disappears into afterparties, or your “open” relationship starts feeling more like an Olympic event in emotional r…
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14 min
Jealousy, Thirds & the Open Relationship Hangover | Blayne It On Us
This week on we have a full episode of Blayne It On Us, where we read your confessions on are and give our take on it. We had lots of submissions this time, and we picked 4. We’re…
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39 min
James Ash: Rising OnlyFans Star with Parents Who Support His Career
What does it mean to come out, build a community, and launch a porn career at 21 in 2025? In this episode, we sit down with James Ash, one of the newest young voices in queer adult…
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41 min
Growing Apart: Moving On from Friendships in Your 30s
In this raw and hopeful episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne dive into the reality of friendships shifting in your 30s. From recognizing when friends no longer fit the life you’re buil…
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39 min
Game Day Love: Football, Relationships & Confessions | Blayne It On Us
It’s football season, and in this episode of In Bed with Koaty & Sumner we talk about what the game means for our relationship. 🏈Koaty grew up surrounded by football—at home, at Pe…
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21 min
Launching Our New Segment: “Blayne It On Us” | Queer Relationship, Sex & Friendship Advice
Koaty and Sumner Blayne are taking In Bed With Koaty and Sumner overseas—podcasting from a bed in Japan while Koaty’s on a work trip. After a quick life update, we debut our brand-…
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31 min
Beyond the Bedroom: How Sex Toys Deepened Our Relationship
This week, we’re diving deep—literally and emotionally. Koaty and Sumner open up about how adult toys transformed our sex life and brought us closer as a couple. From our first unr…
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56 min
Why Gay Men Feel Disconnected—And How to Fix It (w/ Dr. Hector)
In this special “first-in-bed” episode, Koaty & Sumner welcome their first actual in-bed guest: psychiatrist, entrepreneur, and emotional edge-walker Dr. Hector.Together, they get…
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47 min
What is sex therapy with Dr. Chris Donaghue, author of Rebel Love
This week, we’re in bed with the one and only Dr. Chris Donaghue—sex therapist, author, and queer truth-teller behind the book Rebel Love. We dive deep into the messy beauty of que…
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54 min
Differentiation, Exploration, and Red Flags with Author Tom Bruett
We’re joined by therapist and author Tom Bruett, whose book The Go-To Relationship Guide for Gay Men has genuinely impacted our relationship. In this honest and vulnerable conversa…
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41 min
Daddy Issues & Narcissist Parents: Knowing When to Cut Ties
In this vulnerable and validating episode, Koaty shares the emotional journey behind cutting off his father—and the years of narcissistic behavior, gaslighting, and betrayal that l…
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53 min
Ex Mormon, Ex Engineer, Ex tra Gay
From church pews to OnlyFans views. In this episode, Sumner opens up about growing up Mormon—from blessing sacrament trays as a teenager to being interrogated by bishops about mast…
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30 min
The ICCAs, The Trophy, and The Trap of Comparison
"Hey!!! We just got back from Puerto Vallarta, where we were nominated for three awards at the very first International Content Creator Awards (aka the ICCAs)… and we took home Bes…
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36 min
Do We Like It Tight or Loose? A Gay Fashion + Fetish Showdown
Skinny jeans are out. Baggy cargos are in. Harnesses? Always timeless. In this episode, Sumner & Koaty Blayne dive headfirst into the messy, sexy, and sometimes downright busted wo…
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37 min
We can’t circuit like we used to…and that’s ok!
In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their full journey through circuit party culture—from wild weekends, outfit changes, and hookup chaos to burnout, boundaries,…
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46 min
Kink 101: :Learning To Be Open-Minded
In this episode, Koaty and Sumner Blayne open up about their evolving relationship with kink, not as experts or full-time fetish freaks, but as a couple learning to be more curious…
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27 min
AI & The Future of Sex: Are Robots Replacing Romance?
In this spicy and thought-provoking episode of In Bed with Koaty and Sumner, we’re diving into the wild world of AI, sexbots, and the future of intimacy. As technology advances, vi…
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26 min
11 Collabs in 7 Days, Koatys First Content House!
Season 2 of In Bed with Koaty & Sum kicks off with a bang! We’re diving into one of the wildest, most productive weeks Koaty has ever had! For seven days leading up to the GAYVN Aw…
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17 min
Keeping the Spark Alive: Balancing Intimacy and Desire in Our Relationship
In this episode, we dive into the topic of physical intimacy and how it plays a crucial role in our relationship. We open up about how often we need it, the highs and lows of our s…